7 Steps to Detach from your Twin Flame

How you can release attachment to your Twin Flame

DISCLAIMER: this post is not intended to show you how to push your Twin Flame away, cut the cord, block them or the connection, or anything of that sort. That is not what it means to detach from your Twin Flame.

Detaching from your Twin Flame is not choosing separation from them, rather, it means releasing control of the situation and journey, and allowing yourself to be surrendered into a space of peace and unconditional love. It is what allows you to attract them to you, since attachment is a form of resistance. With that out of the way, let’s continue on to the steps…

The Steps

1. Make the choice to surrender — Your choice is powerful, and making the choice to surrender, to be willing to let go of attachment is the first step that allows you to do so. It communicates to the Universe that you choose to release the illusion of control.
2. Do the inner work to heal attachment — The reason there is an attachment to the person or situation is because you feel you receive something from that relationship or situation that you feel is missing from yourself. Find out what that is, and choose to give that to yourself through doing the inner work, and you will heal the attachment. The method for doing the inner work to heal attachment that I recommend and use is called the Mirror Exercise.
3. Purge old energy and old things — Once you’ve done the inner healing work to release attachment, allow that energy to be fully released and purged, upheaved out of your consciousness. You can also choose to allow that inner healing work to reflect in your physical environment through purging and getting rid of old things, things that no longer serve a purpose in your life and don’t add to your foundation and support.
4. Don’t create new attachments — If you’ve actually done the inner work to heal attachment, to let go, don’t just create a new attachment to something or someone else, to shift your obsession or focus from one thing to another.
5. Focus on yourself and your Life Purpose — Once you’ve healed attachment, you’ll have closed up an energy leak and you’ll notice your energy once again returning to you and being replenished. That means you have more energy to invest into yourself and your purpose. As you invest into yourself and your purpose, you are actually magnetising and attracting your Twin Flame to you!
6. Do things that feel truly good to you and add to your joy — As an extension of the previous point, doing things that truly add joy to your life, not as a means to run away from what feels uncomfortable, or life’s challenges, but as something that gives to you will also attract your Twin Flame to you. You are meant to share your happiness and joy with them!
7. Attach yourself to God — Attaching yourself to God means you are attached to the Source of Life and Love, the only truly appropriate dependent relationship since we are fully reliant on God. It means placing God first in your life, and letting everything else fall into place as a result .(If you don’t like the word God, you can also use Source, Universe, Love, the Divine, etc.)

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